Monday, April 30, 2012

SPD?

So ts counselor and I suspected some sensory processing stuff with him. So she recommended we go see an occupational therapist to get a sensory profile. Although she has not diagnosed him with this she does think he has some sensory things to work on. Enough to have him go in every week. For those of you who dont know what SPD is Here is a quick overview.

Sensory processing (sometimes called "sensory integration" or SI) is a term that refers to the way the nervous system receives messages from the senses and turns them into appropriate motor and behavioral responses. Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD, formerly known as "sensory integration dysfunction") is a condition that exists when sensory signals don't get organized into appropriate responses. Pioneering occupational therapist and neuroscientist A. Jean Ayres, PhD, likened SPD to a neurological "traffic jam" that prevents certain parts of the brain from receiving the information needed to interpret sensory information correctly. A person with SPD finds it difficult to process and act upon information received through the senses, which creates challenges in performing countless everyday tasks. Motor clumsiness, behavioral problems, anxiety, depression, school failure, and other impacts may result if the disorder is not treated effectively. Symptoms of Sensory Processing Disorder, like those of most disorders, occur within a broad spectrum of severity. While most of us have occasional difficulties processing sensory information, for children and adults with SPD, these difficulties are chronic, and they disrupt everyday life.

Thats an overview of it. This next part is where I see A LOT of tristan.

 Children with Sensory Processing Disorder often have problems with motor skills and other abilities needed for school success and childhood accomplishments. As a result, they often become socially isolated and suffer from low self-esteem and other social/emotional issues. These difficulties put children with SPD at high risk for many emotional, social, and educational problems, including the inability to make friends or be a part of a group, poor self-concept, academic failure, and being labeled clumsy, uncooperative, belligerent, disruptive, or "out of control." Anxiety, depression, aggression, or other behavior problems can follow. Parents may be blamed for their children's behavior by people who are unaware of the child's "hidden handicap."
The part in bold is where I see him. He has so many emotional issues that it really explains it. SO my goal is to pinpoint the triggers and help prevent them as well as providing him with sensory friendly activities. She said after about 4 or 5 weeks she will have some take home tools for us.

As I have said time and time before I dont want there to be something wrong with him but my instinct is telling me there is something more and has been since he was a baby. I feel relieved that someone is finally listening to everything I am saying and we are finally getting some answers. I feel a little bummed because no one wants to hear things arnt working right in their kids. But I am glad I am finally getting the tools I need to help him and that its not just me being a 'bad parent'. Hes a great kid and so smart and funny and sweet but there are things that make him more emotional. She told us today that it looks like he has problems in the Tactile sensory area, sensory seeking, and audible. The other areas there are a few things that he is super sensitive to but not as much as these three. Our first goal is to help with the noises and his hyperfocusing so he can seem like he is actually paying attention to us. All I can say is counseling is really starting to pay off, and I am so happy I kept him in it and didnt let people get to me. Like his doctor said, "It doesnt make you a bad parent, it just means that you need extra tools to deal with a different type of child."

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Its been a while...

Well it has been forever since I have actually blogged. There is lots going on in our crazy little life. Lets start with me.

So I moved in with my sister and brother in law in february. Its going pretty good and we all get along so it works. I love my new apartment and I love that its so close to town now. I had Brayden Anderson in March and hes just an amazing addition to our little family. I am still in counseling and since I have switched I feel amazing. I really like this new counselor, he is really helping me see things a bit more clearly or i should say helping me realize that I already have seen these things and know exactly what I need to do to move forward. The weather is definitely affecting my mood and I still have times when I am down but im working on it and couldnt be happier with everything in my life right now. :)

Tristan is doing great! He starts kindergarten in the fall and is doing amazing at learning everything he has to for the next grade. He loves his new little brother. Hes so sweet to him. He is still in counseling as well and is doing great. We switched his and she is a much better fit for him. He is learning that its not all about him and I think having Brayden around is helping with that as well. He seems to be having some sensory stuff going on so I am having a sensory profile done with an occupational therapist. As a mom I feel like there is more there than the typical 5 year old stuff, but all of it could be attributed to all the change in his life as well and the fact that he has a dad that is kinda flakey. He really likes counseling and I get a lot from his sessions on new ways to help with his "big feelings". He had an art show today and was so proud of himself. Im so proud of him and all the hard work he does with school, speech therapy, and with his counselor. Hes an amazing little boy thats for sure.

So, Brayden was born March 13, 2012. He weighed 6lbs 1 oz and was 19 3/4 inches long. He had some trouble eating for the first few days but hes doing great now. He weighs 8 lbs and 15 oz now and is 20 3/4 inches long. Hes already holding his head up and is starting to sleep through the night. hes a good baby but is a little tougher than tristan was. He is more cuddly than tristan was and seems to always want to be held. T wasnt like that so its new to me. The doctor asked me if he was an easy, normal, or hard baby and i had to say normal because t was so easy.

Hope everyone is doing well. <3 you all!

Friday, November 4, 2011

Lots of Little THings

So as most of you know, Its a BOY! :) Im excited for him to be here already. Tristan can't wait for his brother to be here either. He keeps talking to him and trying to feel him move. Talking with the dad this weekend about names so hopefully will have a name by sunday! Just got done filling out the vanderbuilt assesment for tristan as well to have him tested for ADHD. Its not going to hurt to have him tested for it and if he in fact has it then it will be nice to use different strategies to alleviate some of the stress and frustration we both have. Hes frustrated because im frustrated so we shall see. Between his ocd tendencies, temper, and activeness i dont see him not having it but im just curious. Just took another test yesterday for school. I am really hoping I am doing well since I havnt been making it much. As long as I get a 2.0 or better im good. I can always work on improving my GPA in the next few semesters. Im currently looking for work...im gonna go through express for some temp jobs here and there since no one wants to hire a prego. haha. And I already have so much going on that I dont have much more time to spend on something like that. Thanksgiving is coming up, then tristans birthday party that weekend and then christmas. Holidays are comign up way too quick it seems and before I know it the new baby will be here. Excited to see what next year has in store for us. Just a quick update...hope everyone has a good month. :)

Sunday, October 16, 2011

Can't Wait for holiday season!

Well I suppose its time to update.

Tristan is doing well in school and is in speech therapy again. They said he is doing just fine now but we figured he might as well stay in for the last few sounds he has trouble in because it was such a success this last year. Hes getting really excited about holidays and the new baby. He is doing extremely well with counseling and I am proud of him for being so excited about his new brother/sister.

Me and the growing baby are doing great. I'm 17 weeks this weekend and I am finally starting to feel the baby move a bit. I should know in the next few weeks what I am having. I can't wait to meet my new baby. I'm excited. I still have morning sickness sometimes and I have heartburn constantly but otherwise things seem to be going good. School is going well for me too. I have missed quite a bit but I am still getting good grades. Been keeping up on my reading and homework from home. I'm hoping next semester I can take 3 classes online so I wont have to worry about driving while I'm so pregnant and missing finals because I'm having a baby ha ha. Human development is doing me well.

So Pumpkin patch this week, Halloween coming up soon, Finding out what I'm having, then thanksgiving, and ts birthday, and Christmas. I'm excited for fall. This year started out pretty horribly but it is turning out to be a great year. :)

<3<3<3

Sunday, September 18, 2011

Yay for Rain! :)

Well now that I have my child back after him being gone a week I can finally get back into the swing of things. I had a very relaxing week since I was sick. :/ I missed him but it was nice to just relax and know he was having fun. :) He said he had a blast and told me all about it tonight. School starts for him on Tuesday! WOOHOO! hes soooooo excited! Im pretty excited about this nice cool weather we are having. Its nice to know that holidays are right around the corner. :)

So Im 13 weeks today, and that means I only have a few days left of the first trimester. Heres hoping I get over this morning sickness crap. Im tired of constantly feeling like Im going to throw up. Ive started thinking about names but nothing has really stuck yet. Tristan is getting more and more excited about the baby. He came home today and talked to it and said he missed it. Hes gonna be a great big brother. :)

Since I have changed my major I have felt like Im not doing enough because there hasnt been much homework besides reading. First exams are next week and it seems like I am breezing through this semester. Its nice to know that my changing my major was a great decision! I am so ready to start volunteering in tristans school again and be apart of that headstart family again. I dont know what I would do without them. Alright thats an update on us. Hope everyone is enjoying the start of Fall. <3

Monday, September 5, 2011

Ok heres the news!

SOOOO...I have been keeping this a secret for quite a while now. :) I have been doing pretty good if you ask me and so have most of the people who I told. Thanks to those who havnt said anything. So here it is....

IM PREGNANT!!!!

yep thats right. I wont go into specifics about the situation but I am getting excited. I am about 11 weeks along and have already had two ultrasounds. Baby looks great and is growing like its supposed to. Tristan is excited as well and to be completely honest, I am ok with the entire situation. Im due at the end of march and will find out what im having in November. This was not planned by any means but its over and done with so ive accepted it and am getting excited. Which is how it should be in my opinion. Cant wait to share this experience with my friends and family and LOVE all the support I am getting already. <3 you all and thanks for being there for me. :)


Thursday, August 25, 2011

Lots Of Changes!

Well today was my first day back to school. I think I am really going to love my new major and I cant wait to work on my minor too. Im taking Families in Poverty and Adult Development and learning. They are pretty interesting subjects. I have another roommate now, her name is Shawna and she has a son named austin. The boys are finally getting along better and getting used to the new living situation...it only took a few months. I do have some news but am not announcing it to everyone just yet. My closest friends and family know and everyone else will know soon enough. :) Im getting excited but it is very unexpected and isnt something i was trying to do at the moment. Anyways....

Tristan is in counseling now and he loves it! He loves going to see him every few weeks and its really helping me work on things with him. I have found that I am following through more with some things and it seems to be working. His meltdowns have gotten much better and im not yelling as much it seems like. He has been listening better though too. He starts school very soon well kinda. A month away. he is soooooo ready. I got him a preschool book to go over the things he learned last year and then some to work on for the next month and then through the year as well.

I honestly cannot wait until we are both back into the school routine. it will be much easier and my days will go a lot smoother. Hope everyone had a great summer. Ill update again soon. Love you All.