Monday, April 30, 2012

SPD?

So ts counselor and I suspected some sensory processing stuff with him. So she recommended we go see an occupational therapist to get a sensory profile. Although she has not diagnosed him with this she does think he has some sensory things to work on. Enough to have him go in every week. For those of you who dont know what SPD is Here is a quick overview.

Sensory processing (sometimes called "sensory integration" or SI) is a term that refers to the way the nervous system receives messages from the senses and turns them into appropriate motor and behavioral responses. Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD, formerly known as "sensory integration dysfunction") is a condition that exists when sensory signals don't get organized into appropriate responses. Pioneering occupational therapist and neuroscientist A. Jean Ayres, PhD, likened SPD to a neurological "traffic jam" that prevents certain parts of the brain from receiving the information needed to interpret sensory information correctly. A person with SPD finds it difficult to process and act upon information received through the senses, which creates challenges in performing countless everyday tasks. Motor clumsiness, behavioral problems, anxiety, depression, school failure, and other impacts may result if the disorder is not treated effectively. Symptoms of Sensory Processing Disorder, like those of most disorders, occur within a broad spectrum of severity. While most of us have occasional difficulties processing sensory information, for children and adults with SPD, these difficulties are chronic, and they disrupt everyday life.

Thats an overview of it. This next part is where I see A LOT of tristan.

 Children with Sensory Processing Disorder often have problems with motor skills and other abilities needed for school success and childhood accomplishments. As a result, they often become socially isolated and suffer from low self-esteem and other social/emotional issues. These difficulties put children with SPD at high risk for many emotional, social, and educational problems, including the inability to make friends or be a part of a group, poor self-concept, academic failure, and being labeled clumsy, uncooperative, belligerent, disruptive, or "out of control." Anxiety, depression, aggression, or other behavior problems can follow. Parents may be blamed for their children's behavior by people who are unaware of the child's "hidden handicap."
The part in bold is where I see him. He has so many emotional issues that it really explains it. SO my goal is to pinpoint the triggers and help prevent them as well as providing him with sensory friendly activities. She said after about 4 or 5 weeks she will have some take home tools for us.

As I have said time and time before I dont want there to be something wrong with him but my instinct is telling me there is something more and has been since he was a baby. I feel relieved that someone is finally listening to everything I am saying and we are finally getting some answers. I feel a little bummed because no one wants to hear things arnt working right in their kids. But I am glad I am finally getting the tools I need to help him and that its not just me being a 'bad parent'. Hes a great kid and so smart and funny and sweet but there are things that make him more emotional. She told us today that it looks like he has problems in the Tactile sensory area, sensory seeking, and audible. The other areas there are a few things that he is super sensitive to but not as much as these three. Our first goal is to help with the noises and his hyperfocusing so he can seem like he is actually paying attention to us. All I can say is counseling is really starting to pay off, and I am so happy I kept him in it and didnt let people get to me. Like his doctor said, "It doesnt make you a bad parent, it just means that you need extra tools to deal with a different type of child."

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Its been a while...

Well it has been forever since I have actually blogged. There is lots going on in our crazy little life. Lets start with me.

So I moved in with my sister and brother in law in february. Its going pretty good and we all get along so it works. I love my new apartment and I love that its so close to town now. I had Brayden Anderson in March and hes just an amazing addition to our little family. I am still in counseling and since I have switched I feel amazing. I really like this new counselor, he is really helping me see things a bit more clearly or i should say helping me realize that I already have seen these things and know exactly what I need to do to move forward. The weather is definitely affecting my mood and I still have times when I am down but im working on it and couldnt be happier with everything in my life right now. :)

Tristan is doing great! He starts kindergarten in the fall and is doing amazing at learning everything he has to for the next grade. He loves his new little brother. Hes so sweet to him. He is still in counseling as well and is doing great. We switched his and she is a much better fit for him. He is learning that its not all about him and I think having Brayden around is helping with that as well. He seems to be having some sensory stuff going on so I am having a sensory profile done with an occupational therapist. As a mom I feel like there is more there than the typical 5 year old stuff, but all of it could be attributed to all the change in his life as well and the fact that he has a dad that is kinda flakey. He really likes counseling and I get a lot from his sessions on new ways to help with his "big feelings". He had an art show today and was so proud of himself. Im so proud of him and all the hard work he does with school, speech therapy, and with his counselor. Hes an amazing little boy thats for sure.

So, Brayden was born March 13, 2012. He weighed 6lbs 1 oz and was 19 3/4 inches long. He had some trouble eating for the first few days but hes doing great now. He weighs 8 lbs and 15 oz now and is 20 3/4 inches long. Hes already holding his head up and is starting to sleep through the night. hes a good baby but is a little tougher than tristan was. He is more cuddly than tristan was and seems to always want to be held. T wasnt like that so its new to me. The doctor asked me if he was an easy, normal, or hard baby and i had to say normal because t was so easy.

Hope everyone is doing well. <3 you all!